This post isn’t about the family reunion.
It’s not about the marathon of laughing, games, trivia, honoring those no longer with us, and endless eating (we are Ukrainian, after all!).
No, this post is about the 18 hours of road-tripping—there and back—with a self-assured, highly motivated, slightly sassy 18-year-old whom I’ve had the absolute privilege of watching grow up.
Over nearly 1,000 minutes in an enclosed vehicle, we covered serious ground, both on the highway and in conversation: music, current events, social media, family lore, and big life opinions. We both have firm convictions. Some align, some don't, so the light debate was frequent and the perspectives offered were plenty.
At one point we landed on the October city council and school board election, her first opportunity to vote. We talked about the role of city council, the work of school boards, how wards are defined, and the value of councilors and trustees in planning, future-proofing, and bringing community voices to decision-making. I talked about the vital importance of the youth vote and shared a piece of my message to the graduating classes of 2025 and 2026:
"Marking a ballot is a privilege that not everyone your age has in this world, and it is a way to send a message and compel change—to have a say in the direction your community, city, province, and country are going.
In the 2023 provincial election, only 8% of those age 18–29 eligible to vote voted, while 38% of those over age 65 eligible to vote did so. Your demographic consistently has the lowest voter turnout, and yet elections have been won and lost by the number of votes equal to the number of you graduating today.
Politics is not complicated. Yes, it takes some work to learn about parties, candidates, and their platforms, and you need to know what you want for the future based on what you believe and value. But think of the message sent and what might change if that 8% became 38% or more. The class of 2026 has power and influence, and collectively, you can sway outcomes and affect change if you show up at the polls."
I stopped there with an offer for further conversation—before her eyes could completely roll into the back of her head (of course I could have gone on and on... have you met me?!). I reiterated how deeply valuable my engagement with young people has been in my work as a school trustee. They continue to be some of my greatest teachers.
"We all have to vote like our lives and the world depend on it, because they do. The only way to be certain of the future is to make it ourselves."
— Billie Eilish


